Slutty Awareness

The first step to becoming a Trustable Slut is knowing yourself and communicating that to your lovers. Here is a great way to start becoming more self aware and be able to have "the talk" with all your playmates no matter if it's your partner or a one-night-stand! 

Step One

This exercise is an example of how  you can become more aware about your own boundaries, desires, and how to communicate potentially critical information for any partner who you might be engaging with physically. Timing is critical in knowing for yourself what you will and won't do as well as when to bring up "the talk" with your potential sexy mate. 

Step Two

Self inquiry. It's great to do some journaling or write down some of the things you want to convey to a potential sexy partner. The goal of this is to maximize sexy time and minimize miscommunications or assumptions and expectations that are unspoken. It may be scary to share all this information but it will save you lots of time in the future.

Step Three

Important Aspects to Think About

• Recent sexual history
  
• STI status
  
• Relational boundaries
  
• Emotional boundaries or places of particular triggers
  
• Ways you enjoy being treated
  
• Archetypes you like to play with 
  
• What does it mean to you to have this kind of connection
  
• What would be your ideal scenario with a partner
  

Service Three

Timing is critical in knowing for yourself what you will and won't do as well as when to bring up "the talk" with your potential sexy mate.  After you've established that you want to have some kind of sensual interaction with a person but before you've gotten too hot and heavy it the best time to share this information.